Blog No. 1 - He'd Better Bring You Flowers

Alrighty, here's an important 'first' on that first date. If he doesn't show up on your doorstep with flowers in hand on your first date, don't plan on ever getting any. Ever. Not that it's a bad thing, but this is the first 'tell.' A guy who doesn't bring flowers then isn't going to change and start bringing them later. It's just not part of their personality. So decide quick how much flowers mean to you ... before you become that girl who complains, "I wish my boyfriend/fiance/husband would send me flowers." If he didn't start out doing it, then he's not going to. He might be that guy who sends them every blue moon --- espeically when you pitch a fit --- but he's never going to spontaneously send them. Unless we teach him to.

If you're smart, you'll learn how to 'train' him to be a flower-giving kind of guy. Don't know how? Guess that's gonna be Blog No. 2. Luckily, that topic will work well with the idea of dropping subtle hints when you first start to date a guy ... little tests, if you will, to see how well he listens to what you want.

All for now. Time to head out and do some 'research.'